{"id":3027,"date":"2015-08-14T09:40:18","date_gmt":"2015-08-14T09:40:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/terapiastrategiczna.com\/?p=782"},"modified":"2015-08-14T09:40:18","modified_gmt":"2015-08-14T09:40:18","slug":"boje-sie-marzyc","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.agatarakfalska.com\/pl\/boje-sie-marzyc\/","title":{"rendered":"Boj\u0119 si\u0119…. marzy\u0107!"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"gwiazdy<\/a>Witajcie,<\/strong>
\nZapewne wiecie, \u017ce w ostatnim czasie mo\u017cna by\u0142o podziwia\u0107 spadaj\u0105ce gwiazdy<\/a>, czego i ja nie omieszka\u0142am zrobi\u0107. \ud83d\ude42 Siedz\u0105c na dachu i podziwiaj\u0105c rozgwie\u017cd\u017cone niebo, z jednej strony czeka\u0142am na ten magiczny moment, a z drugiej strony si\u0119 go ba\u0142am. Dlaczego?
\nW Polsce istnieje powszechne przekonanie, \u017ce je\u017celi wypowiemy \u017cyczenie i zobaczymy spadaj\u0105c\u0105 gwiazd\u0119, to ono si\u0119 spe\u0142ni. Nie chc\u0119 wchodzi\u0107 w dyskusje, czy jest to zabobon, czy praktykuj\u0105cy katolik mo\u017ce tak my\u015ble\u0107, ale chcia\u0142abym prze\u015bledzi\u0107 tok my\u015blenia, kt\u00f3ry wi\u0105za\u0142 si\u0119 z tym wydarzeniem.
\nPierwsz\u0105 my\u015bl\u0105 by\u0142o: ” Bo\u0144ciu, a je\u017celi ono si\u0119 spe\u0142ni? Co to b\u0119dzie? Mo\u017ce lepiej nie kusi\u0107 losu, a co je\u015bli tak si\u0119 nie stanie….”.
\nI przypomnia\u0142am sobie, jak wiele os\u00f3b w Polsce mi m\u00f3wi\u0142o, aby zbyt g\u0142o\u015bno nie wypowiada\u0107 marze\u0144, bo mo\u017cna zapeszy\u0107. Aby zbytnio si\u0119 nie cieszy\u0107, bo potem mo\u017cna \u017ca\u0142owa\u0107. Zacz\u0119\u0142am si\u0119 ba\u0107, \u017ce pomy\u015blane \u017cyczenie mo\u017ce si\u0119 nie spe\u0142ni\u0107, wi\u0119c po co to robi\u0107.
\nCzy mam tylko tak wyb\u00f3r? Albo nie marze i nic si\u0119 nie stanie, albo marz\u0119 i podejmuj\u0119 ryzyko, \u017ce mo\u017ce si\u0119 nie uda\u0107.<\/p>\n

Drugim obrazem, kt\u00f3ry przyszed\u0142 mi do g\u0142owy by\u0142a ok\u0142adka popularnej niegdy\u015b ksi\u0105\u017cki „Sekret” Rhonda Byrne,<\/a> kt\u00f3ry w skr\u00f3cie m\u00f3wi o sile naszych my\u015bli, tych pozytywnych i tych negatywnych. Ksi\u0105\u017cka m\u00f3wi o czym\u015b, co jest powszechnie znane – o sile pozytywnego my\u015blenia, kt\u00f3ry MO\u017bE pom\u00f3c, ale kt\u00f3ry na pewno nie wystarczy aby rozwi\u0105za\u0107 wszystkie problemy.
\nPragn\u0105c czego\u015b usilnie ( i nie m\u00f3wi\u0119 tu o \u017c\u0105dzy posiadania materialnych przedmiot\u00f3w), cz\u0119sto wizualizujemy sobie przysz\u0142o\u015b\u0107 w momencie spe\u0142nienia si\u0119 marzenia. To jest bardzo przyjemne uczucie.\u00a0 Dlaczego by tego nie stosowa\u0107, skoro optymistom \u017cyje si\u0119 lepiej.<\/strong> Nic nie trac\u0119.
\nOstatnim spostrze\u017ceniem, kt\u00f3rym chcia\u0142abym si\u0119 z wami podzieli\u0107 to psychologiczna teoria self fullfilling prophecy <\/a>– samospe\u0142niaj\u0105cej si\u0119 przepowiedni<\/a>. Co to oznacza? To oznacza, i\u017c moje OCZEKIWANIA odno\u015bnie pewnej sytuacji czy osoby powoduj\u0105 zmian\u0119 mojego zachowania w taki spos\u00f3b, i\u017c to czego oczekiwa\u0142am si\u0119 zi\u015bci.
\nDzia\u0142a to w obie strony. Je\u015bli oczekuj\u0119 czego\u015b pozytywnego od innych, to i oni tym mi odpowiedz\u0105 a tym samym potwierdz\u0105 moje przekonanie. Je\u015bli przypuszczam, \u017ce inni s\u0105 wrogo do mnie nastawieni, to b\u0119d\u0119 bardziej zdystansowana w stosunku do nich, wycofana, stan\u0119 z boku. Oni odpowiedz\u0105 mi tym samym, b\u0119dzie to reakcj\u0105 na moje zachowanie. Tym samym potwierdz\u0105 to, o czym my\u015bla\u0142am.<\/p>\n

Tak\u017ce warto marzy\u0107 , czy lepiej „nie kusi\u0107 losu”?<\/em>
\nJeste\u015b w stanie wzi\u0105\u0107 odpowiedzialno\u015b\u0107 za swoje marzenia?
\nJa podejmuj\u0119 ryzyko i ….. marz\u0119!!!\u00a0<\/strong> \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Witajcie, Zapewne wiecie, \u017ce w ostatnim czasie mo\u017cna by\u0142o podziwia\u0107 spadaj\u0105ce gwiazdy, czego i ja nie omieszka\u0142am zrobi\u0107. \ud83d\ude42 Siedz\u0105c na dachu i podziwiaj\u0105c rozgwie\u017cd\u017cone niebo, z jednej strony czeka\u0142am na ten magiczny moment, a z drugiej strony si\u0119 go ba\u0142am. Dlaczego? W Polsce istnieje powszechne przekonanie, \u017ce je\u017celi wypowiemy \u017cyczenie i zobaczymy spadaj\u0105c\u0105 gwiazd\u0119,…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[109],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3027","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","category-109","description-off"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\nBoj\u0119 si\u0119.... marzy\u0107! - Agata Rakfalska<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.agatarakfalska.com\/pl\/boje-sie-marzyc\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"pl_PL\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Boj\u0119 si\u0119.... marzy\u0107! - Agata Rakfalska\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Witajcie, Zapewne wiecie, \u017ce w ostatnim czasie mo\u017cna by\u0142o podziwia\u0107 spadaj\u0105ce gwiazdy, czego i ja nie omieszka\u0142am zrobi\u0107. \ud83d\ude42 Siedz\u0105c na dachu i podziwiaj\u0105c rozgwie\u017cd\u017cone niebo, z jednej strony czeka\u0142am na ten magiczny moment, a z drugiej strony si\u0119 go ba\u0142am. 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