{"id":694,"date":"2013-12-13T10:32:19","date_gmt":"2013-12-13T10:32:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/terapiastrategiczna.com\/?p=694"},"modified":"2013-12-13T10:32:19","modified_gmt":"2013-12-13T10:32:19","slug":"samotne-swieta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.agatarakfalska.com\/pl\/samotne-swieta\/","title":{"rendered":"Samotne \u015bwi\u0119ta&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.agatarakfalska.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/swwieta.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright  wp-image-695\" alt=\"swieta bozego narodzenia\" src=\"https:\/\/www.agatarakfalska.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/swwieta.jpg?w=150\" width=\"232\" height=\"195\" \/><\/a>Jak to si\u0119 dzieje, \u017ce w okresie \u015bwi\u0105t, czy to Bo\u017cego Narodzenia,\u00a0 Wielkanocy, czy Sylwestra, zg\u0142asza si\u0119 do mnie wi\u0119cej os\u00f3b ni\u017c zwykle.<br \/>\nCzy to nie jest tak, \u017ce okres \u015awi\u0105t powinien by\u0107 czasem, kt\u00f3ry mo\u017cemy wreszcie\u00a0 sp\u0119dzi\u0107 w gronie rodzinnym, odpocz\u0105\u0107, zregenerowa\u0107 si\u0142y przed kolejnym zapracowanym rokiem?<br \/>\nSielski obraz \u015bwi\u0105t, gdzie wszyscy szcz\u0119\u015bliwie siedz\u0105 przy stole, sk\u0142adaj\u0105 sobie szczere \u017cyczenia, daj\u0105 prezenty wydaj\u0119 si\u0119 tylko<em> przesadzon\u0105 reklam\u0105 CocaColi.<\/em><br \/>\nZnam niewiele rodzin, w kt\u00f3rych okres \u015bwi\u0105t by\u0142by czasem wypoczynku i wsp\u00f3lnego biesiadowania.<br \/>\nCz\u0119sto si\u0119 spotykam z osobami, kt\u00f3re pytaj\u0105 si\u0119 mnie, jak si\u0119 mog\u0105 wymiga\u0107 od \u015bwi\u0105t, jak unikn\u0105\u0107 pyta\u0144 w\u015bcibskiej ciotki, jak utrzyma\u0107 dobr\u0105 min\u0119 do z\u0142ej gry, jak udawa\u0107, \u017ce wszystko jest w porz\u0105dku.<br \/>\nAle zaraz po nowym roku (Sylwester 2013), opowiadaj\u0105, jak to dobrze, \u017ce \u015bwi\u0119ta si\u0119 sko\u0144czy\u0142y, \u017ce ma\u0142o brakowa\u0142o, aby wybuchli, odeszli od sto\u0142u i wyszli spacer. Ich \u015bwi\u0119ta by\u0142y bardzo stresuj\u0105ce, pe\u0142ne k\u0142\u00f3tni o pieni\u0105dze, o to, kogo zaprosi\u0107, a kogo nie, co ugotowa\u0107?<br \/>\n<strong>Cz\u0119sto si\u0119 zdarza, \u017ce osoby, kt\u00f3re s\u0105 samotne, niezrozumiane, w tym okresie czuj\u0105 si\u0119 jeszcze gorzej. Maj\u0105 wra\u017cenie, \u017ce wszyscy s\u0105 szcz\u0119\u015bliwi, jak w reklamie, \u017ce wszyscy sp\u0119dzaj\u0105 radosny czas z ukochanymi. Por\u00f3wnuj\u0105c si\u0119 do takiego obrazu \u015bwi\u0105tecznej rodziny, ich depresja jeszcze bardziej si\u0119 pog\u0142\u0119bia&#8230;<\/strong><br \/>\n&#8230;..odrzucaj\u0105 zaproszenia innych, aby nie poczu\u0107 si\u0119 odrzuconymi&#8230;.<br \/>\n&#8230;&#8230;Siedz\u0105 w domu ogl\u0105daj\u0105c telewizj\u0119 i u\u017calaj\u0105 si\u0119 nad sob\u0105&#8230;.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em>Obiecuj\u0105 sobie, i\u017c od stycznia 2014 zrobi\u0105 co\u015b inaczej. 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